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Turning the Other Cheek - What it Really Mean
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What Jesus Really Meant by “Turn the Other Cheek”
When Jesus said, “If anyone slaps you on the right cheek, turn to them the other also” (Matthew 5:39), He wasn’t commanding blind passivity. In His culture, a slap was more about insult than physical injury. His teaching was about breaking the cycle of retaliation—responding with dignity, not revenge.
Jesus’ Example
When slapped during His trial (John 18:22–23), Jesus didn’t lash out with insults or violence, but He also didn’t stay silent. He calmly asked:
“If I said something wrong, testify as to what is wrong. But if I spoke the truth, why did you strike me?”
This shows that He didn’t retaliate violently, but also didn’t submit to unjust abuse in silence. He confronted it with truth and dignity.
On the cross, He embodied the principle fully by refusing revenge and praying, “Father, forgive them” (Luke 23:34).
Paul’s Example
Paul endured beatings and insults without striking back. Yet, he also defended himself legally by appealing to his Roman citizenship (Acts 22:25–29). This shows “turning the other cheek” is about avoiding revenge while still pursuing justice.
The Balance
Not retaliation: Neither Jesus nor Paul answered violence with violence.
Not passivity: They still spoke truth and resisted injustice lawfully.
“Turning the other cheek” is about the heart—choosing love over revenge—not about being a doormat.
Modern-Day Examples
Insults:
Suppose a co-worker mocks you publicly to embarrass you.
The natural reaction might be to insult them back.
Turning the other cheek means you don’t trade insult for insult. Instead, you stay calm, maybe respond with a kind word or silence, showing that their words can’t control your spirit.
Business loss:
If someone cheats you in business, don’t cheat in return rather calmly demand fairness or let go.
Family conflict:
A relative lashes out in anger and says hurtful things.
Instead of escalating the quarrel, you choose to keep peace, forgive, or give a soft answer. That can sometimes shame the aggressor into calming down.
Enemies:
Someone spreads lies about you online or in the community.
Instead of retaliating with your own campaign of gossip, you leave vengeance to God and continue doing good, letting truth and time expose the lie. Or you gather evidence and sue them to court.
When Not to Turn the Other Cheek
Jesus’ words don’t mean ignoring abuse. At times, it’s right to stand firm:
Self-defense: Protecting yourself or loved ones isn’t revenge—it’s survival (Luke 22:36).
Protecting others: Scripture calls us to defend the vulnerable (Proverbs 31:8–9).
Seeking justice: Like Paul, use lawful means to stop injustice.
Correcting wrongs: Jesus drove out corruption in the temple (John 2:13–17).
Final Thought
Turn the cheek when it’s about pride, insult, or revenge.
Stand firm when it’s about justice, protection, or truth.
Conclusion: Let go of revenge—but don’t enable evil. I hope this blessed someone
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